I cry when I want to and no one can stop that. Others think that to cry shows how weak the person is, but for me the person who cries shows will and bravery.
I cry and what is wrong with crying? It is a way for me to release my anger, sadness and frustrations. When I cry, I feel relieved afterwards and am able to think clearly. It hurts much more when you stop or hinder yourself from breaking down and crying. And how it hurts, it hurts like knife cutting through you. Keeping yourself from crying worsens your situation and may even back you down.
Other people used to say to me that I am such a crybaby. I cry for situations and things which are of little importance. To them it maybe a simple and small thing but to me it may mean big. I cry over simple television shows, animals, and many more, but that is how and what I am and that what makes me a unique person.
My brothers say and tell me that too, but they don’t understand me. I am the only girl, besides my mother, in the household. It is hard living with three older brothers, especially when they usually interfere with my business in the house and in school. Of course they don’t understand me and will only understand me once they have each of them a girlfriend, then they will know what I feel. A text mate once said to me that girls are so complicated, but that is what we are, and to understand us is the obligation of the men and women around us.
Crying is my simplest way of releasing what I feel. I am a teenager after all. It does good to me when I cry. When I cry, all my problems and worries are well thought of and are released out of my heart and mind, seems like I get a now lighter load. I know that crying to myself is good, but having someone’s shoulder to cry on and a friend to talk with is much better, because with this I am able to say my problems, release my anger, seek comfort and receive advices. Based on my experience, when there is someone there listening to my problems while I cry makes me feel loved and cared.
You are brave when you cry; you are doing the thing that what men usually think is unmanly and unruly. Men are fond of keeping a problem all to themselves and stop themselves from crying. I don’t know, maybe secretly they cry. No man has ever lived his lifetime without having to shed a tear even for once.
Crying isn’t a thing what one should be ashamed of doing, but a thing that God gave us to release the emotions we feel inside. So, do not keep yourself from crying and tell a friend of your problems, and do offer your shoulder to anyone who wants to cry on it.##
I cry and what is wrong with crying? It is a way for me to release my anger, sadness and frustrations. When I cry, I feel relieved afterwards and am able to think clearly. It hurts much more when you stop or hinder yourself from breaking down and crying. And how it hurts, it hurts like knife cutting through you. Keeping yourself from crying worsens your situation and may even back you down.
Other people used to say to me that I am such a crybaby. I cry for situations and things which are of little importance. To them it maybe a simple and small thing but to me it may mean big. I cry over simple television shows, animals, and many more, but that is how and what I am and that what makes me a unique person.
My brothers say and tell me that too, but they don’t understand me. I am the only girl, besides my mother, in the household. It is hard living with three older brothers, especially when they usually interfere with my business in the house and in school. Of course they don’t understand me and will only understand me once they have each of them a girlfriend, then they will know what I feel. A text mate once said to me that girls are so complicated, but that is what we are, and to understand us is the obligation of the men and women around us.
Crying is my simplest way of releasing what I feel. I am a teenager after all. It does good to me when I cry. When I cry, all my problems and worries are well thought of and are released out of my heart and mind, seems like I get a now lighter load. I know that crying to myself is good, but having someone’s shoulder to cry on and a friend to talk with is much better, because with this I am able to say my problems, release my anger, seek comfort and receive advices. Based on my experience, when there is someone there listening to my problems while I cry makes me feel loved and cared.
You are brave when you cry; you are doing the thing that what men usually think is unmanly and unruly. Men are fond of keeping a problem all to themselves and stop themselves from crying. I don’t know, maybe secretly they cry. No man has ever lived his lifetime without having to shed a tear even for once.
Crying isn’t a thing what one should be ashamed of doing, but a thing that God gave us to release the emotions we feel inside. So, do not keep yourself from crying and tell a friend of your problems, and do offer your shoulder to anyone who wants to cry on it.##
2 comments:
hi daph!!! it's me lyn!! don't be afraid to cry especially when i'm with you.. you can always cry.. i'm here for you.. i have a shoulder you could cry on.. its exclusive for you!!! ahehehe.. sowe.. but i think i don't have enough hankies of tissues.. wahehe.. though i may not be always with you 24/7, you could always call out my name, and i promise!! i'll be there for you.. both in your good and bad times.. i barely see you cry.. i actually would always cry in front of you.. and i thank you.. for always sharing with me my joys and agony.. i may not be that expressive enough to show you how concerned i am for you.. i'm just a text away!!! ahehehe.. "you're it! your the ultimate! it's automatic.. i'm sure of it.. no lie.. so don't even tr.. to tell me that your not the guy.. coz iv been waiting all my life.. for someone just like you.. you're it.. your the ULTIMATE you!!
remember.. i'm always here for you.. c",)
well, i like everything that u write. It is so wonderful! i hope u write once more.....:)
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